I have a complete understanding of why he did this. See this link >>> http://www.glennsacks.com/distraught_fathers_courthouse.htm
I don’t want this knowledge but whenever the news talks about a separated couple and the man commits suicide I understand, empathize and I have compassion for him. What mystifies me is everyone else’s lack of understanding. I believe (I have said this in early posts) that individuals don’t understand what happens to a man when the divorce occurs.
Suicide is still seen by many as an inherent weakness or flaw or some psychosis within the man. But I hypothesize a different condition that moves a man into this position. When you strip a man of everything for the sake of the “children” and given his “ex” to power to destroy his life what do you think is going to happen? Here the female now has the power and ability of the government and judicial system to make that man pay. It’s so empowering for the female. Everyone around her including her friends, her lawyer and Maintenance Enforcement are encouraging her to get the “bastard”. He fucked me around, well just let me show him what is going to happen next. I will make that fucker pay.
First, I am not suggesting all ex-wives are like this. However when her emotions are stirred up, hell hath no fury. Lawyers for the ex-wives should take responsibility in this action as well. These lawyers are coaching these ex-wives to go for the jugular to get as much as possible from the bastard – squeeze that little prick dry. If the lawyer and the ex-wife truly understood a life stood in the balance, I wonder what they would do.
In my case (and I have said this earlier) I realized this is exactly what was happening. How do I know? Because my ex also sued me for cat support. Yes she wanted money to support the cat as well. I know this sounds ridiculous when you talk about it outside the court of law but imagine if she had been awarded that $300 a month she was asking for. As I was leaving the court, in the small chamber off to one side, I saw my ex-wife’s lawyer, she was dancing and talking into the phone, “we got the bastard.” All I wanted was a fair and equitable settlement. She was out to gut me.
So excuse me that if in the end, when everything has been taken away, a man only sees suicide as the way out. I understand this perfectly. As others “tisk, tisk” this away seeing the individual as mentally imbalanced – I see another man disemboweled and emasculated by his ex-wife using the tools placed in her hands by her lawyer and the government. The blood of this individual and all others are the responsibility of the ex-wife and the government. It’s a god-damn pity.
